For most people, sleep can regularly feel like hitting the “pause” or “reset” button in your brain. This is understandable, as your body lies unconscious for hours, and you certainly have no memory of what’s happening while you’re out.
But in reality, a ton of things are going on, “behind the scenes” so to speak, while you sleep. Your brain enters a complex biological state, repair happens, dreams come and go, you shift into different sleep stages – and on and on.
Introduction: Why Sleep Is A Lot More Than Just “Turning Your Brain Off”
If you’ve ever seen someone who has only slept for a few hours, for 3-4 days in a row – you’ll see the huge difference this resting period makes. You’ll also see how quickly things break down, without proper rest.
It is important to understand what is actually happening while you sleep, as it will help you see resting in an entirely new way. Busy people often think of sleep as just “wasted time” – but it is in fact an essential part of thriving, and is required for peak performance and optimal well-being.
In fact, sleep helps with memory, your emotions, your physical health, and even your looks. Early wrinkles come a lot earlier when you are constantly sleep deprived, for example.
This article will break down how the sleep cycle works, what happens while you’re unconscious, what exactly your body and brain do for those 8 hours – and how even the smallest disruptions and changes in conditions, can negatively impact your sleep.
Sleep Cycle – Explained
While we tend to think of sleep as just one period – the part of our day where we can truly relax – your body and brain actually go through a serious of repeating cycles. Within those cycles, there are different stages, each of which are critical to getting an optimum night’s rest.
Four Stages Of Sleep
Zooming all the way out, sleep can be viewed as occurring in two distinct categories. There is REM sleep, and non-REM sleep.
Understanding the differences between the two, is important. But before we go into that, let’s also look at the 4 stages of sleep.
Stage 1 Of The Sleep Cycle – Light Sleep (N1)
Light sleep is exactly what you think it is – the period where you’re “barely awake”, or “not fully awake”, in more direct terminology. This is essentially the point where your body and brain transition from being awake, to being asleep.
During this period, you can be woken up very easily, you might feel your brain slowing down, and you may even experience muscle twitching. This stage only lasts for a few minutes, and your muscles will relax, along with your brain starting to drift into “auto-pilot” mode.
Stage 2 Of The Sleep Cycle – Light Sleep (N2)
This is the main event. Well, it’s at least the stage you spend the most time in, every night. Stage 2 of sleep is what most of us spend the most time in.
This is the classic sleep period that most people just call “regular sleep”. You know the signs – your breathing slows, your body temperature drops, and your brain waves actually become more synchronized.
Somewhat misleadingly, this is still called light sleep. But it is absolutely crucial for memory forming and processing, as well as preparing you for the deeper stages of sleep.
Stage 3 Of The Sleep Cycle – Deep Sleep (N3)
This is the most comically used stage of sleep, which you often you see in movies. Your body and brain slow way, way down, muscles are very relaxed, brain activity slows to a crawl, and waking up in this stage will often leave you feeling confused and/or groggy.
This stage is very important, because it is when the body focuses on rebuilding tissue, releasing growth hormone, and strengthening your immune system. This stage is also sometimes referred to as slow-wave sleep.
Stage 4 Of The Sleep Cycle – REM Sleep (Rapid Eye Movement)
To me, this is the most interesting stage of sleep. This is when most dreaming occurs, with your brain activity increasing to almost waking levels.
During dreams, your body actually becomes temporarily paralyzed, to help you avoid acting out your dreams (as weird as that sounds). REM sleep is very important for learning, memory, and emotional regulation.
How Do Sleep Cycles Work?
When you are sleeping, a full sleep cycle can take anywhere from 90-120 minutes, to fully finish. Therefore, most of us experience 4 to 6 sleep cycles per night.
Interestingly, the cycles change – for example, early parts of your rest will have more deep sleep, and as you continue to sleep, REM sleep begins to take over more.
This balancing act is actually crucially important – as you probably have found out, disruption to REM sleep (caused by fragmented sleep or shorter amounts of sleep) – can leave you feeling unfocused, moody, and emotionally fragile.
So remember, always try to shoot for 8 hours of good, solid sleep, every single night. Your health will thank you for it.
What Exactly Does Your Brain Do While You’re Asleep?
Contrary to what most of us probably assume, your brain is very active during sleep. Much like a janitor who cleans a business after hours – your brain does a ton of maintenance, cleaning, and repair, during sleep hours.
Memory Processing And Learning
Ever notice that those who sleep more, usually have better memories and can oftentimes be smarter? That’s no accident.
Sleeping enough is critical to learning things in the long term, as your brain organizes memories, skills, facts you learned, and much more, during your sleep. In fact, these things are transferred from short-term storage to long-term storage, during your nightly resting period.
A good night’s rest has been show to improve problem solving, memory recall, performance, and more. On the flip side, poor sleep has been shown to have the opposite effect.
REM sleep and deep sleep actually impact different types of your brain – according to scientific studies. REM sleep is involved with emotions and procedural learning, while deep sleeps helps with your factual memory.
Emotional Processing
As you likely know from having dreams (and nightmares), your brain actually processes emotional experiences during REM sleep. The brain wants to do this in a low-stress environment, so it is safe, and this process is crucial.
REM sleep helps reduce the intensity of negative memories and experiences, and also can help you regulate your emotional responses. Try to avoid having your REM sleep disrupted, as it can leave you feeling irritable, emotional, or anxious.
Creativity And Sleep
Surprisingly, getting lots of sleep actually helps you get more creative. This is because your brain forms new connections between ideas, while you rest.
Unsurprisingly then, many people “sleep on it”, and wake up with a clear decision. This is because your brain has had time to process, and also reorganize, the information you have taken in – without any distractions.
What Your Body Is Doing While You Sleep
While you may think your body is “just laying there” during a good night’s sleep – nothing could be further from the truth. Sleep is crucially important for your physical health.
Muscle Recovery And Physical Repair
When we reach deep sleep, our body works hard to repair muscles, grow tissues, and maintain our bones. This is achieved by releasing growth hormone.
Athletes who don’t get enough sleep, end up in a world of trouble, for instance. If you have a physical injury, sleep also becomes your best friend, for another example.
No deep sleep = poor recovery, which only further increases your injury risk. Bottom line – always shoot for 8 hours a night.
Why Is Sleep Important For Your Immune System?
This is a big one. Without proper sleep, you are much more likely to get sick. I’m sure we have all experienced this one, first hand.
You get 2-3 hours sleep after a fun night out – and then wake up sick, 2 days later. This is because your body produces infection-fighting cells and antibodies during sleep.
Put simply – less sleep (or even poor quality sleep) = less infection fighting, and less antibodies. Scientists have even linked slower illness recovery, and higher illness rates, directly to less sleep – so beware.
Metabolism And Hormones (While You Sleep)
Another reason good sleep is essential to health – you might end up skinnier, with proper sleep. That’s because your body regulates hormones during sleep – especially the ones that control stress, hunger, and your blood sugar.
Ghrelin (the hunger hormone) increases if you are sleep deprived. Leptin (your satiety hormone) actually decreases, at the same time – essentially a double whammy.
To make matters worse, your blood sugar can get out of whack, due to insulin sensitivity declining – again, from poor sleep. This applies even if you are making no dietary changes, so make sure you get enough rest – as you can gain weight and have metabolic issues, just from poor sleep.
Deep Sleep And REM Sleep – The 2 Most Crucial Players
Not all sleep is created equally. REM sleep and deep sleep help a lot more, essentially.
Light sleep may be good for basic functioning, but anything beyond that, is going to require REM sleep and deep sleep. So if you want to optimize your health, make sure you are getting tons of REM sleep and deep sleep.
Deep Sleep = Crucial For Physical Restoration
Among other benefits, deep sleep helps with:
-energy restoration
-muscle repair
-immune strength
Even if you sleep for a while, if you miss out on deep sleep, you are much more likely to report feeling groggy or unhappy.
REM Sleep = Critical For Mental Health
On the flip side, REM sleep supports:
-stress regulation
-emotional balance
-memory integration
The science related to lack of REM sleep is scary. You are more likely to have a mood disorder, reduced coping skills, and impaired concentration.
Your Sleep Setup And Your Sleep Quality
Somewhat surprisingly, how you sleep can have a major impact on how well you achieve good sleep cycles. Even small factors can play a role.
Spinal Alignment And Support
Your sleep environment matters a lot more than we previously though – and nothing is more critical than spinal alignment. Poor alignment or pain on pressure points can lead to micro-awakenings – some of which we don’t even remember.
This has a disruption to the deeper sleep cycles.
Temperature Of Your Sleeping Environment
Besides darkness, temperature has one of the biggest impacts on your sleep quality. If your sleep surface traps too much heat, your body can’t stay cool enough – jolting you awake.
Your body temperature is supposed to naturally drop while you sleep, so make sure you choose a cool surface (via topper or mattress, or both) – to rest on.
Sleep Continuity (And Movement)
Even small disruptions (noise, repeated movement, etc.) can wake you out of deep stages of sleep – even if you can’t remember it. Good quality sleep must maintain good continuity.
What Happens With Consistent Poor Sleep (Nothing Good)
It’s fine to have a bad night’s sleep once in a while. In fact, it’s normal. But having poor quality sleep every night? Different story.
Short Term Effects Of Poor Sleep
-increased sensitivity to stress
-impaired memory
-mood swings/irritability
-reduced reaction time and attention span
Long Term Effects Of Poor Sleep
-hormonal imbalances
-weakened immune function
-increased risk of cardiovascular disease
-higher likelihood of anxiety and depression
Unfortunately, poor sleep compounds over time periods. One bad night? No problem. 200 in a row? Big problem.
Not getting enough good, quality sleep for long enough = significant impact to your quality of life.
In Conclusion…
It is important to practice good sleep hygiene. Even small disruptions in your sleep can make a huge difference in your long term health.
Here is a quick checklist, which can help you improve your sleep quality:
-reduce any and all sources of movement or vibration (no TV)
-keep your bedroom dark, cool, and quiet
-crucially, use bedding and pillows that will support your specific sleeping position
-limit caffeine and alcohol after 2PM (yes, that early)
-maintain a very consistent sleep/wake schedule (i.e. bed at 10PM, wake at 6AM)
-black out any sources of light, especially windows (blackout shades are your friend)
Additionally, your mattress can impact your sleep.
Believe it or not, sleeping on a bad mattress (or even just one that isn’t ideal for your sleep position, or your partner) – can greatly impact your sleep quality.
Different sleep positions and body types require different types of mattress. Look for a mattress with a cooling surface, and test whether firm or soft is better for you.
Don’t be afraid to look deeper, at motion transfer, and much more, too.
The bottom line, when it comes to achieving great sleep quality…
Remember, when you go to sleep, you are not just resting. You are repairing your body, storing and organizing memories, your brain is sorting all the information you took in during the day – and much more.
Make sure you take your sleep seriously, and your body, brain, and long term health – will all thank you.
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